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#19: I just want to enjoy being single right now

Sep 13, 2009 | Reported by alphawolf | Excuse Type: Rejection

female-32x32Female Translation

I love all the attention I get all the time. From the guys. AND girls. Of course the sex is…amazing. I’m at my physical peak right now! Sure eventually I’ll settle down, hopefully with a rich and good looking guy. We can still hangout. Maybe. (When I have absolutely nothing to do).

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male-32x32 What to do

Be happy with being single yourself. The best way to get a girl to commit to you is to genuinely have other options.

#18: It’s not you, it’s me

Sep 13, 2009 | Reported by alphawolf | Excuse Type: Rejection

female-32x32Female Translation

It’s not ME, it’s YOU. But I am trying to make you feel better about yourself. So I’m going to say it is totally my fault. Gee…I’m such a nice and caring person. And I am really modest too.

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male-32x32 What to do

First, try to find out what it is about you that is making her break up the relationship and if it is fixable. Then, find other girls to date in the meantime and as she sees you with other girls her “defect” might suddently be fixed and she’ll become compatible with you again.

#17: I’m Not Ready For a Relationship (NRFR)

Sep 13, 2009 | Reported by alphawolf | Excuse Type: Rejection

female-32x32Female Translation

I’m not ready for a relationship… with YOU.

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male-32x32 What to do

You have been on 10 dates with this girl, buying her expensive dinners and gifts in hopes of sleeping with her. And maybe you have, a few times. Just when you think this girl is a keeper and that you invested enough to become her official “boyfriend”, she gives you the NRFR excuse. To diffuse this, the man must understand:

  • Ironically, continued investment from you is counter-productive when no investment is being made from the girl that reciprocates the relationship.
  • Continue seeing her if possible and start immediately to date other girls