Female Translation
Well… You are a really cool guy. I am kind of attracted to you and curious about you. But I am getting a lot of GOOD things right now from my relationships and I’m not ready to make the jump yet.
What to do
- If you are the guy she’s hanging out with, be cool about it and go with the flow. If things go well, she could be a great lay or next girlfriend. Even if she is just a friend, she probably has a lot of other girlfriends as well, and expanding your social circle just got that much easier.
- If you are the boyfriend, try to set guidelines of your girl’s behavior around her boyfriends. As always, a balance of power and status is necessary between the sexes. Having a few girlfriends of your own will also help in balancing the power and providing backup options if things go wrong in the current relationship.
- A truly alpha guy understands the SHB mentality and is not jealous or needy when his hot girlfriend has other friends. He is also a man of value and status, and it is with this congruent identity that he places his trust in his partner when this excuse comes up.
