Female Translation
I’m not ready for a relationship… with YOU.
What to do
You have been on 10 dates with this girl, buying her expensive dinners and gifts in hopes of sleeping with her. And maybe you have, a few times. Just when you think this girl is a keeper and that you invested enough to become her official “boyfriend”, she gives you the NRFR excuse. To diffuse this, the man must understand:
- Ironically, continued investment from you is counter-productive when no investment is being made from the girl that reciprocates the relationship.
- Continue seeing her if possible and start immediately to date other girls
