Female Translation
I had such a great night out with this guy. Ha! I’m a little tipsy. And horny. Mostly tipsy though. This is a really nice apartment! I haven’t gotten laid in 6 months. I really need to have sex. But, I can’t be this easy! What will my girlfriends think of me? And the guy will probably think I’m a slut. I’ll just act dumb and let him suggest something to do other than fuck in his room.
What to do
Unlike men, where sleeping with multiple partners is considered high social proof (terms like “stud” and “ladies man” apply), for women, the opposite is true. If labeled a “slut” by society, her friends or even you, her social reputation suffers. As such, most girls need plausible deniability when going up to a guy’s room for the first time.
You may want to pre-empt this excuse on the date by referring to the awesome music collection of Aerosmith that she liked so much, or the wine collection that you have been dying to show her. Another tactic is to suggest if she needs to use the bathroom, or come up for some water and rest.
If you are at her place, usually asking to use the bathroom works and you can spend some time vibing at her place afterward. Keep in mind that although she will be more comfortable in her place than yours, she also has her “things” going on, such as phone calls, emails and laundry that could detract from the full close.
