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Female Translation
It’s not ME, it’s YOU. But I am trying to make you feel better about yourself. So I’m going to say it is totally my fault. Gee…I’m such a nice and caring person. And I am really modest too.
What to do
First, try to find out what it is about you that is making her break up the relationship and if it is fixable. Then, find other girls to date in the meantime and as she sees you with other girls her “defect” might suddently be fixed and she’ll become compatible with you again.
Female Translation
I’m not ready for a relationship… with YOU.
What to do
You have been on 10 dates with this girl, buying her expensive dinners and gifts in hopes of sleeping with her. And maybe you have, a few times. Just when you think this girl is a keeper and that you invested enough to become her official “boyfriend”, she gives you the NRFR excuse. To diffuse this, the man must understand:
Female Translation
I have been supporting Joe’s lazy butt for the past 6 months, and he has yet to get promoted to the Burger King store manager. Come to think of it… I can do better with someone else if I get some work done and improve my sex appeal with a new “look”.
What to do
“What? We’ve been focusing on you for the past 2 years! What do you really want?!”
Female Translation
I AM in a transition. A transition to a better looking and cooler guy than you.
What to do
Everyone is technically in a “life transition”. Things change. It is a fact of life. This makes this excuse particularly lame. It is usually followed up by, “I’m studying for a test” or “I am moving to the city” or “I am trying to focus on my acting career”.
Because she’s not attracted to you anymore, and your core identity doesn’t really fit her future prospects of where she is going. This is a particularly effective excuse that “drags out” relationships, because it involves change over time. What chodes usually do is that change who they are and “fit” into her life and transition. Ironically this only pushes the woman further away, because a real man may sacrifice a little to accommodate her, but always has his own goals to pursue as well. Women lose attraction for men who seem to have no direction in life.
