AKA “But you called me a slut”, “but you called me a dirty girl”, “but you called me a f’ing bitch!”
Scene from Sex and The City
Female Translation
Yes I had degrading and dirty sex with you, but that does NOT make me a slut!
What to do
This depends on the girl. Usually, this means that the girl is actually a good girl and is not used to dirty language in bed. Apologize, tone it down. Dial it back and start slowly. If you called her a slut, start by calling her a bad girl. Most of the time, role playing and dirty talk turns up the intensity in bed.
of course, calibrate depending on the girl. Some girls just don’t like any degrading language in bed. However, having been with many, I know that most women do.
